No More Fightings!

Hello, readers. Welcoming you all to my blog page. What do you think when you look at the title?. Our conscious mind will take us to the fight between the parents, between the siblings, between the boss and the employee or between the friends and so on.

Fight do not know, who’s literate and who’s illiterate?. It occurs without any partiality in both of the literate and illiterate families. Humans aren’t the magicians to stop occuring the fights but they can control it, if they have a control over their aggression.

Why it is important to have a control over the fightings?. Everyone would say, to lead a happy life.

No family runs without a fight. How we are trying to come out of it and how we are managing it to lead a happy life? are the major focus here.

If you have a control over the aggression, then your life becomes so happy.

What happens to children when parents fight infront of them?. [ childhood begins at 3 years and ends when the child enters into the adolescent ].

A child sees his/her parents and develops many habits and behaviors that may be considered as “rude” for some people and may “good” for others. If the parents are fighting infront of the child, it would definitely affects child’s mental health. It can also have a negative serious effects on child’s academic achievement, wellbeing, happiness and so on.

If the child does something that is really good, then the society will start appreciating the way the child has brought up by the parents. Society usually make judgements and predictions on a child by observing the behavior and by seeing how they’re in the society. There’s always some connection between how parents are behaving infront of the child and the child’s mental health. Parents usually do not understand the effects and imapcts of fightings and they don’t even consider how it affects later years of their child’s life.

If the parents are repeatedly fighting infront of the child, the child observes everything and tend to repeat the same in future and there’s also a high chance to get affected. These children are experiencing stress when they move to the adulthood period.

Parental fightings are actually sucking the child’s cognitive ability, concentration & attention level, creative ability, enthusiasm towards sports and academics, as well as their active engagement in extra-curricular activities. These kind of children find it difficult to manage their marital life when they move to adulthood.

Parental fightings have a serious impacts and negative consequences and it shows its negative reflections on their children.

Parental fightings might be due to the finances, misunderstanding between spouses, not having an ability to adjust to one another, dislikes, etc.,.

Parents must understand that fighting isn’t the only solution to come out of the issues. They should develop the mindset that they both can deal it or manage it by giving up something for one another. It is essential for both the father and mother to focus on the mental health of their children. Parents must keep it in mind that their fightings aren’t only affecting their children but it also affects their own mental health too.

FIGHT IS NOT THE SOLUTION;

DEAL IT OR LEAVE IT;

DON’T KEEP DOING IT.