Choosing career is really irritating

Hello, everyone. Hope you all are doin’ good. I don’t know, how many of the individuals find/found it difficult to choose their career?.

Most of them are getting irritated or undergo stress while choosing their career.

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Each and everyone has several goals and having atleast one ambition for sure. Most of the individuals are having passions other than goals and ambition. It’s really too hard to reach the ambition stage due to many factors like financial background, situational factors, environmental factors, inability to choose or inability to handle the pressure of the papers ( If we don’t have an interest to study one paper in school/university and that will hinder us from focusing on the other papers with full concentration.

Many individuals work hard to make their ambition true but they can’t able to proceed after certain stage because of not having sufficient “money”.

I really found it hard to choose my career path because there were many ideas kept running inside my head and I was in complete confusion and dilemma. I cried many times because of those stressful stuffs and not had an ability to choose.

I noticed many individuals are good in choosing their when they are in 9th or 10th grade itself. This might be due to the enough exposures they’ve gotten from their school or from their family members or from the online sources.

A parent should not tell or force the child to do what they liked to pursue. It’s necessary to give a child an oppurtunity to explore. There are some parents who had an ambition to become a doctor/an engineer/an architect but couldn’t able to pursue when they were in younger stage and now try or force to push all those stuffs inside their children mind. Those kind of individuals are more likely to discontinue their studies or showing no interest at all.

All the parents want their children to achieve the good position in the society. In such case, they should allow them to explore rather than ordering them. Give them a guidance or tell them to get a guidance from their teachers or from their seniors but the guidance should not be like forcing, punishing or ordering to do something. The guidance must be like giving individuals an ideas regarding to their questions. Teachers, parents and other individuals (who’re expert in any particular field) are playing an essential role.

If your friend is coming to you and he/she wants to discuss about his/her career, and your ambition is to become a psychologist means, don’t tell him/her that psychology is the one and the only field which has a better scope when compared to to the other fields. Listen to what he/she tries to tell with patience and give a good suggestions and ideas to overcome this problem. If yoy are not sure, direct him/her ti any othet elder people.

Some individuals are waiting for someone to receive a career guidance. Try to help them and don’t push them to the stage of stress and depression by giving a wrong guidance.

Study clearly shows that depression is more likely to occur among individuals those who were undecided about their career than who decided.

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Find out on which field you are interested in and explore more about it. Gather more and more data from the books and from an online sources and ask your parents and teachers about it. This would be the best way to choose the career.

This is also one of the problem which is faced by many individuals. This is also needed to be considered. If we can’t able to do a big help, we can do a help atleat in this way by helping a young generation people and create a peaceful stress free mind.

Thanks for reading😊